Mother’s Day is Sunday! If we are honest, it is different this year. For the past two months everything has been different. When chatting with a momma recently, she told me that this year Mother’s Day is just another day. She said it was not going to be special because of everything going on. HELLO, WHAT?!? Yes, I agree that things are different and might not be the dream Mother’s Day you had envisioned with your children all gathered (well behaved all day), an amazing meal out, a day of pampering at the spa, time with other mommas to sip mimosas, and that special moment at church where you get to stand up and everyone claps because you are mom! Oh and then there might be that amazing photo op that was setup and your children dressed up with fresh haircuts and all smile with you at the camera. Then you post that picture and say #BlessedMomma. You are correct my friend, all that special will not be happening this Mother’s Day! So do you want to wallow in that or Momma Up! Put on Your Cute Momma Britches and Let’s know that we are honored and loved.
A few tips of my 14 ½ of being a momma:
- My husband and children cannot read my mind. I can get frustrated or I can just say “you know I would like….” This is what I did. I love having brunch out on Mother’s Day. I have already done the research and set my guys up for success. I told them the place that is offering takeout brunch and when they need to have it ordered. This year’s pick is: Little Rey’s. I’m already craving their breakfast tacos. I also know I want something sweet so I have an order in to A Piece of Cake. There is no shame in picking our your own cupcakes.
- I know I will not be having a pampering day at the spa this year. That’s ok! I have learned during this time that just having a little time to myself goes a LONG way. Again, I told my hubby that I would like to get out of the house. You can take a walk or a drive. Listen to your favorite podcast, read a book, or just listen to silence.
- Rediscover yourself. IS there something you have been wanting to try? Paint by number, baking, growing your own herbs, or playing the ukulele. This is a great time to do this. Tell your family that you want this for Mother’s Day. You might need to send the links from Amazon but who cares. You are getting what you want.
- Don’t be a brat on Mother’s Day! This is not the year to pull this. Everyone is doing the best they can. Your family wants to celebrate with you. You don’t want them to remember the year that mom pouted because she didn’t get the day she wanted.
Proverbs 31:28 says “Her children rise up and call her blessed; her husband also, and he praises her.” Right there. Proverbs 31:28 is the momma that I want my husband and children to find. I want my heart and mind to focus on Jesus on Mother’s Day. I want my family to see that I feel honored that I was chosen for them.
Let’s Momma Up this year! You can have your Mimosa. (I have a recipe coming!) Use your voice. Focus your heart and mind on Jesus. You got this.
Love You Mommas!
Last year’s Mother’s Day post looked a little different! 🙂